On Packing My Hospital Bag

This week, I’ve started actively packing my hospital bag (as opposed to just planning what I think I want to pack). At this point, I have most non-food items packed, although I’m quickly realizing that I probably need a separate bag to include some baby stuff. It’s been interesting because I tend to be pretty minimalist when I pack to travel, but it seems like a hospital stay for labor and maternity requires different things. For one thing, I needed to get a portable speaker to connect to my phone to play Hypnobabies tracks (I don’t usually think about “playing music” because I don’t listen to music much outside of the car), and I need stuff for after the baby comes out. But I probably don’t need much in the way of clothing.

It’s mostly difficult because it’s really easy to find lists of “things you’ll need in your hospital bag” as well as lists of “all the things I thought I needed but didn’t.” But it seems like the upshot of the latter type of list can be really personal. Like, one person insists you don’t need to bring clothes, where another insists you do because hospital gowns are uncomfortable. Now, I haven’t tried the gowns at my specific hospital, but I’ve never had a problem with hospital gowns in general, and because I generally have the modesty of, well, a community theater actor who has to change costumes in spaces without private dressing areas, I figure I’ll be fine in a gown most of the time.

So I figured I’d make a note of what I’m packing, and then maybe when I get home (and have time), I’ll make a note of what I used or what I particularly appreciated. In particular, anyone who reads my main blog or follows me on Instagram knows that I usually have a pretty involved skin care routine, so I’ve been putting a lot of thought into how to bring enough that I don’t feel like I’m neglecting myself, while being realistic about just how much energy I’ll have to do skin care while in the hospital.

So here’s what I’m bringing, so far:

Skin/hair/body care: I’ve divided my toiletries into face products, hair products, and other products and put them in separate, labeled bags (I used pink pouches from Glossier because I have so many of them because their cleanser is the only one my skin likes). For face care, I’m bringing micellar water and cotton, some pre-soaked hydrating toner pads, and a tube of Cerave Baby cream (this will also double as a hand/body cream). I’m also bringing a tube of sunscreen, for when I go home. For hair care, I’m bringing a sample of shampoo and conditioner I got from a Sephora order, along with a seamless comb, some scrunchies, a couple hair elastics, and a couple wide, soft headbands. My plan is to keep my hair braided as much as possible to avoid tangles. For body/other, I’m bringing deodorant, a toothbrush, toothpaste, lanolin (this doubles as a lip balm), and disposable nursing pads.

Clothing: I’m planning on mostly wearing hospital gowns, but I am bringing a couple draped-front cardigans and a robe in case I want an extra layer, plus a nursing bra in case for some reason I feel like I need to wear a bra. I’m also bringing a bunch of fuzzy, non-slip socks. Not really clothes, but I’m also bringing a fleece blanket and a camping towel, just in case because they roll up small. The only “outfit” I’m bringing is something to wear to go home in case my check-in clothes get ruined by, um, fluids. Going-home outfit is a pair of fleece leggings, undies, socks, a nursing tank top, and one of my favorite tunic sweatshirts that I mentioned in my last maternity wear post. I’m also bringing a babywearing wrap.

Baby stuff: From what I’ve heard, most of the things you’ll need are provided, other than stuff for the baby to wear home. So I’m mostly just bringing a couple sizes and styles of clothing from the box of hand-me-downs I got from friends so I can pick out an appropriate going-home outfit for the baby. I think I have some onesies, some footed PJs, and some pants, plus I’ll probably bring a hat and socks. Since I plan on breastfeeding, my husband is putting my nursing pillow in his car, but I’m also bringing a sample-sized can of formula and some bottles, just in case things aren’t working out. And of course I’ll bring the pediatrician’s contact info, just in case.

Comfort stuff: I’m bringing a few little things to remind me of the space I used to train with my hypnosis tracks, like a salt candle holder and some flameless LED candles, plus I’m bringing the aforementioned speaker. I got a Tribit bluetooth speaker from Amazon for about $30 and I have to say, I’m pretty impressed with it. And it has like 20 hours of battery life. I’m also bringing an extra-long iPhone charging cable, and a 32-oz. water bottle. As far as snacks go, I’m bringing lots of Larabars, some boxed miso soup, some juiceboxes, and tea. I’ve decided to bring Pique tea crystals instead of tea bags because they’re easier to deal with if my husband is making me tea. Plus, they’re slim enough that I can bring 4-5 packets of crystals in the same amount of space as one of my favorite tea bags, so I can have a better variety. I’m also bringing my own mug so that I don’t always have to drink out of paper cups.

Other: In addition to stuff to keep me happy, I’m also bringing some potentially necessary documents, such as the information for my work’s short-term disability insurance, and copies of my birth plan. I’m also including an “inventory list” of what’s in the bag so that my husband can get stuff for me without bugging me about it. I’m sure I’ll think of some other things to throw in, so I’ll mention that if it happens when I give my post-birth update.

So far, most of this fits in the small duffel bag that I used to use as a gym bag, though I’ll probably pack a separate small bag for baby-specific stuff and snacks. Husband will have his own bag (he needs more in the way of clothing, since he doesn’t get a gown). But at this point, I feel mostly-ready for going to the hospital, which is good because theoretically it could happen in a week or it could be another month or so!

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Hypnobabies Self-Study Course: Week Six Recap

I’ve officially finished the main self-study course and I’m now in maintenance mode! Week six’s reading assignments are about learning about newborn care and how to navigate some of the choices you have to make as new parents. I was particularly impressed with the chapter on setting boundaries with guests. It was nice because I sometimes feel like I’m being overly strict with the boundaries we’ve decided on for our families and visitors, but the course actually went further in some cases, such as letting visitors who are coming to “help” know that the one thing they don’t get to “help” with is taking care of the baby. No, you’re not “helping” by offering to hold the baby while I take a shower, unless I specifically ask you to. Anyway, our baby will have two involved parents and my husband can always hold his child while I take a shower, and vice versa.

The course reading also went into some specifics about breastfeeding technique, which I appreciated. I probably should look more into classes on breastfeeding, as I know it doesn’t always come naturally, but I have a wealth of available resources, including lactation consultants at both the hospital and our pediatrician’s office, as well as doulas who will be making a postpartum visit and are lactation consultants, plus several friends who have breastfed successfully and can share their tips (such as making sure to always have massive quantities of water on hand to drink).

There were two new hypnosis tracks, plus a new practice track, but rather than doing a new track every other day, this week’s tracks switched to the maintenance schedule, which is a different track every day, sampled among the various tracks that were used throughout the course. It’s nice because this is the schedule I will now follow for the rest of the course. We’re also supposed to keep doing the mini-script exercise. Technically, you’re supposed to have your birth partner read the script every other day, but we only managed it once this week. That said, given that we’ve had early success getting through the scripts, I think we’re doing fine. The two new hypnosis tracks are “Fear-Clearing” and “Visualize your Birth,” plus the “Maintenance Techniques Practice.”

Fear-Clearing Track:

This track helps you put a voice to any specific fears you’re feeling and then visualize releasing them. It’s very relaxing and I like the way it prompts you to deal with just one thing that is worrying you. You can do the track as often as you want and choose a different fear each time. Honestly, this would have been a great track to have from the beginning of pregnancy because it’s not specific to fears just about childbirth.

Visualize your Birth:

This track walks you through your birthing time, kind of like a mental dry run of birthing your baby. Given how much media there is about the frantic and stressful nature of childbirth, it’s nice to have a calm walkthrough to help me feel prepared without feeling keyed up.

Maintenance Techniques Practice:

This is a master practice track that walks you through all the specific hypnosis tools learned throughout the course, including the finger-drop technique, turning your mental switch off, turning your switch to “center,” eyes-open hypnosis, pushing visualization, and the two hypnotic cue words “Relax” and “Release.” It’s a great way to keep these techniques in your mind so you remember to use them. I’m definitely finding it easier to internalize the cues and I’ve even been practicing using some of the cues and techniques when I feel certain kinds of discomfort in pregnancy.

Now that I’m officially done with the main course, I probably won’t be recapping every week, but I will check back in every so often to let you know how my maintenance is going. I’m still finding that it’s a bit of work to fit in all the hypnosis tracks I need to listen to every day, but as I progressed through the class, I realized how much good it was doing me, and I find myself wanting to make time for them, rather than stressing over how I’m going to fit them in.

Previous Hypnobabies Self-Study Posts:

Week Five Recap

Week Four Recap

Week Three Recap

Week Two Recap

Week One Recap

Starting the Program

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Hypnobabies Self-Study Course: Week Five Recap

I’m almost done with my Hypnobabies home study course! Now, the birth partner is supposed to be reading all the courses with the mother-to-be, but week five is where the course explicitly brings in the birth partners. The slides are addressed directly to the birth partner at times, which meant that the best way to go through the course was for my husband and I to sit down and go through the slides together. Unfortunately, my husband reads a bit slower than I do, so this meant that going through the reading together took significantly longer, but it gave us a good chance to check in with each other about our feelings about the pregnancy and our preparations for childbirth.

This also gave us an opportunity to discuss scheduling some time to actually do the mini-script exercises that we were supposed to start last week. We managed to fit in two mini-script practices, which I’ll talk a little more about below. All-in-all, I liked the presentation of the information about birthing, once again. This week’s lessons focused more on the final stages of the birthing process, with emphasis on how the birth partner can help. Because I’ve already done extensive research while drafting a birth plan on childbirth interventions, I skipped a few of the extra class readings with information about specific procedures because I’ve either already found a lot of information on them and made my own decision, or I’ve already discussed them with my doctor and decided that we’re on the same page.

I also found myself continuing to love the Zenband headphones. Do you like my hypnosis practice selfie with wild morning hair and Zenband headphones? I’ve been trying to take advantage of the fact that I wake up about an hour or so earlier than I want to and use that time to get in some morning hypnosis practice. It’s still a bit of effort to get in all the daily practice sometimes, but listening to affirmations while I commute and doing at least a few sessions in my office during my lunch break definitely helps. I’ve found that if I make an effort to get as much practice done before I get home from work, I’m far less likely to fall asleep than when I do my practice after dinner, right before bed.

The new tracks this week are “Hypnotic Childbirth #2” and “Preparation for Comfortable Pushing,” as well as the two mini-scripts (one was introduced last week and one this week).

Hypnotic Childbirth #2:

This track introduces the “Release” cue and reinforces the “Peace” cue. It’s generally relaxing, and contains a mix of hypnosis with your lightswitch off and eyes-open hypnosis with your switch in center, which is nice practice. As I go through the two “Hypnotic Childbirth” tracks, I definitely can start to feel more and more like this is something I’m internalizing and will be able to use in childbirth.

Preparation for Comfortable Pushing:

This includes a brief finger-drop and eyes-open hypnosis practice, and then moves on to a breathing and visualization exercise to prepare you for using hypnosis during the pushing stage. I liked the instruction in specifically targeting hypno-anesthesia using the “Peace” cue, and I’ve actually been using hypno-anesthesia and my “Peace” cue to help alleviate pains in pregnancy, such as leg cramps and back discomfort. Additionally, the breathing practice includes something like a Kegel exercise to help you learn how to consciously relax your pelvic floor during pushing.

Mini-Scripts #1 and #2:

Mini-script #1 was actually introduced last week, but we were remiss and didn’t get to practicing it. So we practiced it this week. Mini-script #1 includes practice of the “Relax” cue, with the birth partner putting a hand on your forehead or shoulder, while mini-script #2 includes practice of all three cue words: Release, Relax, and Peace. I was really worried about how the script practice would go because I’d heard on the Hypnobabies Facebook group that it’s really common for you both to get the giggles the first few times you try to practice. But my husband turned out to be pretty natural and finding his “hypnotic voice” and having the music to play in the background helped a lot. We got through both scripts with no giggles, and I definitely appreciated how it helped me understand how the “Relax” cue would work. I was worried about it because I sometimes flinch at being touched, especially if I’m meditating, but I found the “Relax” cue paired with touch to be extremely soothing. And it definitely helped us figure out how this was going to work with the two of us together.

Week five kind of gelled things together for us, I think. Interestingly enough, this week was when we really started getting things together to prepare for childbirth and the arrival of our baby, and I think that going through this course together has strengthened our bond as a couple. See you next week for the final week of the course as I enter “maintenance” mode.

Previous Posts:

Week Four Recap

Week Three Recap

Week Two Recap

Week One Recap

Starting the Program

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Hypnobabies Self-Study Course: Week Four Recap

This week started off a little rough. I managed not to start my new week’s lessons until the afternoon on Sunday, so I didn’t get around to listening to my hypnosis tracks at all until the evening. Luckily the practice track was the same “Eyes-Open Childbirth Hypnosis Practice” track from last week, so I didn’t feel so bad about missing a day of it, and I also missed a day of listening to my affirmations. But I guess part of the program is learning to move on when things don’t go exactly as planned, so I tried to just forgive myself and pick it back up the next day.

I wanted to talk a little bit about focus during hypnosis. Because the visualizations refer to “hypno-anesthesia” being an orange-colored light, the Hypnobabies Facebook group is full of photos of orange light as inspiration and they recommend using a pink salt lamp as a source of dim, orange illumination. Now, I didn’t want to buy a lamp, but I saw these candle holders on Amazon. They hold a tea light, which sits deep enough in the candle holder to both give it a subtle peach-orange glow, and be inaccessible enough that I feel comfortable using it during hypnosis training without worrying that my flame-obsessed cat won’t stick her face in it while I’m in deep relaxation. And I can use a flameless electric tealight if I want to bring it to the hospital with me (it’s about the size of a large coffee mug).

As far as the course goes, this week’s readings focused on the physical side of birth, describing the progression of early birthing time. It goes into the progression of Braxton-Hicks pressure waves to early birthing into active birthing time, as well as describing some of the exams or procedures you might experience leading up to your due date and when you arrive at your birthing location. It was very comforting to have a thorough description of childbirth written in a way that was specifically intended not to make it sound intimidating.

The tracks were largely the same, with the hypnosis practice being the “Eyes-Open Childbirth Hypnosis” practice track from last week, and with the familiar “Deepening Your Hypnosis” track alternating with the new track introduced this week. And of course, affirmations every day. I’m starting to enjoy listening to them on my commute in the morning to set the tone for the day. But the other day, I was feeling particularly low and worried and found that listening to the affirmations while going about other parts of my day really helped me cheer up and feel a bit more positive.

Hypnotic Childbirth #1:

This track introduces the “Relax” cue word and describes how your birth partner can use it to help you deepen hypnosis and relaxation during childbirth. It’s very similar to the other tracks so far, and provides a deep sense of relaxation as well as helping instill the hypnotic cue word in your subconscious mind. While I haven’t noticed it yet with “Relax,” I can tell that the “Peace” cue has worked it’s way into my subconscious mind when I hear the word on the affirmations track.

So that’s where I am with the program. This week starts the final content week of the course, and then in week six, I’ll transition into maintenance mode, which will continue for the rest of my pregnancy. Hopefully this not only stays a good way to maintain calm and health in pregnancy, but gets me prepared for a positive childbirth experience.

Previous Posts:

Week Three Recap

Week Two Recap

Week One Recap

Starting the Program

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Hypnobabies Self-Study Course: Week Three Recap

Well, I’m halfway through and this week really got into the meat of childbirth and childbirth hypnosis. The readings focused mostly on interventions during birth while the tracks introduced the idea of hypno-anesthesia and eyes-open hypnosis. Plus, I found a great new tool for listening to my hypnosis tracks.

That’s me, listening to my hypnosis track with the soft peach glow of a candle in a pink salt candle holder as a visual focus, using my new ZenBand headphones from Blooming Wellness. ZenBand headphones are a set of flat headphones housed in a soft headband so that you can fully relax while listening to your tracks through headphones. I had noticed that my ears would start to hurt when I listened to earbuds, and these were actually recommended on the Hypnobabies website, so I figured I’d give them a try. The owner of the company is very responsive (there was a glitch and I didn’t get my confirmation email right away) and they shipped super fast. They definitely make relaxing while listening easier. (NB: I paid for these myself and have not been given any incentive to review them).

Now, on to the course itself this week. As I mentioned, the course reading was mostly about interventions during birth. Of course, it’s very biased towards “natural” or unmedicated childbirth, but I expect no less from pretty much any childbirth class being offered outside of an actual hospital. And, frankly, the whole reason I’m taking the course is to learn about alternatives to conventional hospital interventions. So I’m not bothered by the emphasis on the drawbacks of epidural pain relief, though I was impressed that they didn’t use some of the most obvious scare tactics. And, at the end of the day, the Hypnobabies course does seem to value the mother’s choice over any one philosophy. As the affirmations say, all routes your birthing takes are valid and good. Ultimately, they want mothers to be comfortable with any direction their birthing can take so they can maintain relaxation.

The tracks focused on hypno-anesthesia more than previous weeks, which I’ll admit was a stumbling block for me initially. Dan had made a comment that while he was open to the general concept of self-hypnosis, he thought the term “hypno-anesthesia” was corny. And I see his point. But through the reading and the tracks this week, I’ve come to realize that they’re using that term for a specific reason. The program is about using your mind to feel as though you’ve been anesthetized in some way, rather than just trying to give you mental tools to overcome pain. So, in that context, the term makes sense.

Creating Hypno-Anesthesia:

This track introduces you to the idea of hypno-anesthesia and helps you feel how it manifests in your body, as well as introducing the idea of eyes-open hypnosis. In previous weeks, you learn about your mental lightswitch; this week, you learn that it’s a three-phase switch — it can be “on,” “off,” or in the “center.” I found this particularly useful as a visualization because I used a lot of three-phase switches in the lab and I even liked the comparison to electronics when they talk about the signal being filtered when your lightswitch is in “center.” I really liked this track and I’m finding it easier and easier to drop into hypnosis as the weeks go on.

Eyes-Open Hypnosis Practice:

This track is a practice track to help you practice turning from “on” to “off” to “center” and practice being in hypnosis while your eyes are open and you can move around. It includes five practice sessions and takes about twenty minutes. It’s a nice practice. I never tried practicing without the track this week, so I’m curious if it works as well without the recording, but oddly enough I found it occasionally difficult to stay awake during this track. For some reason, when I’m in “center,” I find it hard to keep my eyes open and not just go back to “off.” It’s possible that had something to do with the lack of sleep I’ve faced over the last week, though. Who knows.

So that’s my weekly progress with the Hypnobabies course. I’m more than halfway through the main course and starting to feel more confident about birth with every week that goes by. Join me in the coming weeks to find out how the rest of the program went for me.

Previous Hypnobabies Self-Study Posts:

Week Two Recap

Week One Recap

Starting the Program

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Hypnobabies Self-Study Course: Week Two Recap

The second week of Hypnobabies definitely delved a little more into the meat of the program. Week one was a solid introduction to both their style of guided meditation and the difference between relaxation and hypnosis. But week two really brought in more of the serious work on the actual hypnosis portion of the course.

The weekly slides and reading were mostly about staying healthy in pregnancy. There was a little bit about nutrition, some of which I agreed with, but mostly presented in an innocuously vague manner. They do recommend you start tracking your protein intake, so I used the week to actually monitor my food intake. Interestingly enough, I discovered that, while I’m getting plenty of protein, I tend to eat fewer calories on days when I mostly stay home, which could be one of the reasons that I sometimes get a little dizzy on Sunday evenings. It’s actually been a nice motivator to remind myself to eat earlier and heartier on weekend mornings and (despite being sick) I felt better for it this weekend. I also found out that I could afford a couple more treats than I usually allow myself, hence the pain au chocolat selfie above!

They also give mild recommendations on exercise, mostly gentle stuff like yoga and walking, which are both backbones in my prenatal exercise routine. But they also provide recommendations on specific daily exercises to help prepare your body specifically for birthing. I don’t do the exercises every day, but most of them are exercises that are a staple in my barre and yoga workouts (I’ve just started adding some cat/cow stretches to my barre workout when I’m modifying the ab routine).

One thing I wanted to point out is that, as I said previously, this is not a short time commitment. Once again, the reading (slides and extra PDFs) took me about an hour to get through, and I’m a fast reader. The additional daily tracks you’re supposed to listen to are the “Joyful Pregnancy Affirmations” track (40 min.) and the “Finger-Drop Technique Practice” track (15 min.) daily, plus alternating between the “Learning Self-Hypnosis” track (40 min.) and the “Deepening Your Hypnosis” track (45 min.). So, altogether, the daily listening is between 95 and 100 minutes per day, although the 40-minute affirmations track can be listened to while you’re doing other things, and they do say that the hypnosis tracks can be listened to while you’re going to sleep (although I like to them at least once a week when I know I won’t doze off). So between work, going to the gym, and making dinner, I’ve sometimes struggled to find the time to listen to everything. I’m fortunate to have a private office and a full hour of lunch break, so I actually listened to my hypnosis tracks at my desk twice last week. It’s absolutely worth it (Saturday evening when I was feeling absolutely dismal, my hypnosis track was the only thing that helped my achiness all day), but it’s worth noting the time commitment. As far as the specific tracks go, here are my thoughts on the new tracks this week:

Finger-Drop Technique Practice:

This is a practice track, which will apparently become a weekly thing from now on. You start with this track, which helps you develop the response to the hypnotic cue called the finger-drop. The idea is to train your mind and body to react to a conscious action (raising and dropping one finger) to trigger you to fall into deep hypnosis. After listening to the “Learning Self-Hypnosis” track, where you learn the full idea behind the hypnosis tool of the mental “lightswitch,” you use this short track to practice mentally turning your lightswitch off and falling into deep hypnosis easily. The idea is that you will eventually use this technique to fall into self-hypnosis at the drop of, well, a finger when you need to. It’s a really interesting idea and the only problem I’ve had is overthinking whether or not I should be practicing with both my right and left hands, or just use the hand that feels most natural to me.

Learning Self-Hypnosis:

This track introduces you to the concept of self-hypnosis and “hypno-anesthesia,” which is a state where your body is so completely relaxed that you can’t move (although it’s more like you don’t want to, rather than some sort of terrifying sleep paralysis). In the track, they introduce the idea of the mental “lightswitch,” which is visualized as a switch at the base of your skull that controls all the electrical impulses between your brain and the rest of your body. By visualizing this switch, you can visualize turning it off and switching off all impulses to the rest of your body. This way, you can be aware of your surroundings, but feel completely relaxed and relieved of all tension. It’s a very relaxing track to listen to, and is a good introduction to self-hypnosis. My only complaint is that this, and all the tracks, tend to rely on a lot of repetition, which I suppose has some basis in the practice of hypnosis that I just don’t understand yet. That said, I find myself skipping the first several minutes of this track because it seems like mostly introductory stuff that I only needed to hear once.

Deepening Your Hypnosis:

This track is one that you take with you beyond week two, and that I’ve heard women use during their actual birthing time. Rather than focusing primarily on teaching you a hypnotic cue or tool, this track primarily serves to send you to the deepest level of relaxation and hypnosis. After performing the finger-drop and putting yourself into hypnosis, you are led through a series of hypnotic suggestions to drop you deeper into relaxation. It kind of reminds me of Inception when they dive into deeper dream levels (in fact, I found myself visualizing being dropped on a beach at the deepest level of relaxation more than once). It is profoundly relaxing and very easy to fall asleep to. The script even allows for you to use the track to fall asleep at the end if you wish, instead of counting back up. They also teach you the hypnotic cue “Peace,” which is meant to help serve you both in birthing time and whenever you need a moment of relaxation. I will admit to using my “peace” cue a couple times during the week when I was feeling frazzled, too.

So those are my thoughts about week two, and the specific tracks introduced. My only complaints thusfar are the sometimes-lengthy introductions to each track. It would be nice if the introductory remarks were added as separate short tracks that you could choose to play before the main track or not, but it’s a relatively minor complaint. I’ve also started playing with my posture and location while listening to the tracks. I realized that I won’t be having my birthing time upstairs in my bed (I wouldn’t want to get to a point where I don’t feel safe descending the stairs!) so I’ve tried to spend more time in my living room. I even borrowed a yoga ball to try sitting on for some of my sessions. But now that I’m two weeks in, I’m starting to feel even more confident about my preparations for birthing and my pregnancy in general.

Previous Hypnobabies Posts:

Week One Recap

Starting the Program

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Hypnobabies Self-Study Course: Week One Recap

Well, I’ve finished my first week of the Hypnobabies self-study course at home, and I thought I’d share some of my thoughts thusfar. I’m finding the program really interesting, and I think it will be helpful for my childbirth experience, regardless of whether it’s the only comfort measure I use. Specifically, I’m finding that I really appreciate the daily relaxation and meditation break that the practice involves because a fair amount of my pregnancy has involved worry about both the pregnancy and the birth at the end. Week one is really more of an extended introduction to the Hypnobabies program, and to the idea of self-hypnosis in general. It’s interesting because the week one slides hint at things to come, but don’t really delve into the specific self-hypnosis techniques that you’ll learn later on.

The main takeaways from week one, for me, were the importance of focusing on positive birth experiences, retraining your mind to think of childbirth as a positive, empowering thing, and using the special Hypnobabies language around pregnancy and birth. It definitely seems hokey at first to call “labor” “birthing time” and “contractions” “birthing/pressure waves,” but as someone who has used meditation in the past, I understand the necessity to challenge and rewire your brain on a deeper level. And it’s nice for me, as someone who has anxiety, to take concrete steps towards reducing my anxiety around the idea of having to actually birth the baby at the end of this. I will say that I think the two hypnosis tracks from week one, plus the pregnancy affirmations track, would all be appropriate to use earlier on in your pregnancy. I think if I ever have another baby, I’d probably start listening to the three tracks from week one earlier on, and start the official course with week two later on in my pregnancy.

Joyful Pregnancy Affirmation:

Now, affirmations are seriously not my thing. But I was able to find a meditative space where they were helpful. Oddly enough, I’ve used mantra meditation in the past, but it was always in Sanskrit, so there was less involvement from my conscious/analytical mind when I repeated a mantra. It was merely a way to focus my mind and keep it from wandering. So by treating the pregnancy affirmations the same way, I found a kind of meditative benefit from them, except that rather than listening to them only while sitting in meditation, I would listen to them whenever I had 40 minutes to do so. I listened to them at work while eating lunch, while commuting, while falling asleep at night, and any other time I could snag a chunk of time. I definitely feel more calm and positive about the idea of giving birth after listening to them, even if I don’t always pay attention to every word. Similar to my comments about the positive affirmations in some of the Circle + Bloom meditations, there is a sense with these that you have to accept the positivity and not try to argue with it, which is easier if you’re not fully paying attention and analyzing them the whole time.

Your Special Safe Place: 

This was the first self-hypnosis track that I listened to during the program, and it’s really more of a guided meditation and visualization, although I imagine the visualization is going to come into play later on in the program when you get into the deeper hypnosis tracks. I enjoyed this track more than I thought I would, probably because I realized that my “special safe place” is actually a real place that I go semi-regularly and just makes me feel happy and relaxed. The photo above is from it: the deck of my in-laws’ lakehouse early in the morning when most everyone is still asleep and it’s very cool and quiet. So having a guided visualization to take me there was a profoundly relaxing experience during my pregnancy, especially since later pregnancy has made the 5-hour-plus drive to get there sound less appealing.

Easy, Comfortable Childbirth:

This hypnosis track is more of a guided deep relaxation, followed by an explanation of the benefits of the Hypnobabies course, in my opinion. I enjoyed the deep relaxation, and I could see how hearing the course material while in deep relaxation could help, but I’m pretty sure the main point of this track is to get you used to entering and being in deep relaxation to prepare you for the physical sensation of hypnosis later on. But it’s a nice way to relax, at least.

So that’s my recap of the first week of Hypnobabies home-study. I’ve already moved on to week two, as I realized that reading all the slides and course handouts on Sunday helps prepare me to more fully focus on the hypnosis recordings the rest of the week. I’ll check back in next week to let you know how it’s going.

Previous Hypnobabies Posts:

Starting the Program